Be more of a Listener than a Preacher

I find myself wanting so hard to advice my friends. But who am I but a college kiddo whose currently unemployed about to move back to his foreign country and has had practically a sabbatical year besides studies?

That’s right. I’m working on myself nevertheless. I firmly believe I can accomplish BUT, other people’s life aren’t my own. And sometimes instead of considering I’m helping someone out I should really analyze my words and notice if I’m currently in a moment of my journey where I can actually have the luxury of telling other’s what to do? See when you are going to give genuine advice, be real and ask yourself: Is my life demonstrating I am past this issue?

Sometimes people vent to be heard, they’re not actually looking for your feedback. And reassurance, you should provide only to those who actually do the work and you know kind of slipped and simply need that little push which you may deliver because other’s are simply in that part of the process where they’re stuck in ‘’victim’’ mentality, they want the high from the conversation but later on stumble upon the same pattern.

So that being said, pay close attention because sometimes what other’s least want is for you to play the role of the hero and preacher. Shut the fuck up, be humble enough to listen to others deviations in life even if you think you’ve gotten through it a long time ago. This is a game and each and every one of us is on a different level.